It's okay, it's not your fault if you're just getting closer to accepting that your loved one is dead. Depression will follow the final stage of grief. With depression, there are two types of depression: the first is sadness and worry about the cost of the funeral and everything that needs to be managed. This phase can be cleared up by putting everything in order and making sure it is checked. During this time, we might need words of sympathy that we didn't want to hear during our anger phase to comfort us. The second stage of depression is saying our goodbyes. This may not be easy, so having a family member or close friend to talk to or support to cry with could be a great option. Acceptance, stage five, let me be the first to say that again, it may take you years to reach this stage, or even months, not everyone is the same. This phase is reached when the person has reached a conclusion of withdrawal. It is certainly not a moment of happiness and joy but rather a moment of peace with oneself. Sometimes sick parents or grandparents can reach this stage