Today, the problems of our youth are a very serious problem. If the adolescent problems that exist in this country are not reduced and resolved quickly, it may lead to the destruction of the order of the nation in the future. Some of the factors that encourage middle and high school age adolescents to have sex outside of marriage, including the influence of liberalism or social life, are the free, environmental and family factors that support the behavior orientation and media influence. Free sex is sexual intercourse outside of the marital relationship. According to Sigmund Freud, sex is a fundamental instinct present from birth. From birth, the human being has become sexual or the libido (sexual energy) progresses through the phases: oral, anal, phallic and genital. Adolescence is a period of a person in a state in which puberty activates things for him that he wanted to know, therefore in adolescence, when a child needs moral and spiritual guidance. As a creature blessed with great selfishness, adolescents have a personal character that is very easily influenced by me. Right now, they are very vulnerable in terms that can affect their behavior, good or bad. An example of bad behavior that can torment a young soul is the desire to try the taste of alcohol, drugs and even sex. One of the main factors that push adolescents to succumb to free sexual behavior is the lack of love and attention from them. Parents, in addition to the role of religion and family, are very important in anticipating the behavior of young people. This requires openness between parents and children with effective communication. Perhaps as a place for your children to relax, the desired hobbies, supporting these activities is positive for him, such as sports activities, in addition to the may...... middle of paper ... ...would not resist. Afterwards, who will be responsible, eh? Usually an apology as proof of love. In fact, if you really love, you will keep sex after marriage.2. FEEL IS NOT A GAULIAN CHILDWith never had sex, considered “Gaulish”. A great one though. However, many adolescents have a low sense of self and are still considered "Gauls".3. BUSINESSProstitution is evolving rapidly, only the lure of high-value money can encourage adolescents to go loh! In some areas, teenagers are also used as a business tool by parents or also due to the problem of poverty.4. THE VALUE OF RELIGION IS REDUCED. Religious value is reduced in children so that there is no more fear.5. VIEWING TVLack of parental supervision when watching TV, parents should accompany and provide feedback and guidance on what to watch for children.6. LIFESTYLESome teenagers say it's their lifestyle.