Do you believe in happy endings? Once in a person's life, everyone finds that perfect person who they fall desperately in love with and live happily ever after. This is a simple mistake; in the real world, this simply doesn't happen. Yes, people have common interests and therefore develop romantic involvement, but it is common sense that these relationships have a shelf life and simply cannot last. There are some people who are not meant to fit into your life long term, no matter how much you want them to. Sometimes people come into your life to shake you up, tear apart your ego, change your perspective, show your obstacles, break your heart and your mind. The cause of a breakup can be due to various reasons such as cheating, breakup, quarrels or lack of communication. First of all, cheating is not an option; it's a choice that many people choose. A person tends to cheat when he is not satisfied with his girlfriend or boyfriend. With this problem, some people prefer to date two guys or two girls at the same time, especially if one of you and your partner live in a different place. For example, in my case, I was in a relationship before and it happens that B (code name) lives 3,736 miles from me. As a result, I was tempted to date another man because I couldn't do what other couples do with B in person, like hug him, hold his hand, kiss him when I want, etc. B didn't know anything about it and I felt really horrible. A few weeks later I was forced to choose between B and the other guy because I realize it's not fair to them and they don't deserve it. I am so ashamed that I made this mistake. If only I could turn back time, I wouldn't do what I did. Admit it, we can...... middle of paper...... we started dating. I missed him since we do the same things every day and I found someone who can complete my happiness. We argued a lot because I disappointed him. I'm not meeting his expectations like being a good girlfriend and I think he deserves better. Not speaking to him for a week changed our relationship; we became strangers and I made false excuses for a week. I shouldn't have done that. There are many factors and causes that contribute to couples breaking up. However, cheating, breakup, quarrels, and lack of communication are the most common reasons why they tend to end their relationship. Jocelyn Soriano once said: “We suffer so much because we have lost a part of ourselves. If we loved a lot, we must have given a lot too, and when it's all over, we feel like we've lost everything..”