They have more options than ever to air their “dirty laundry” for the world to see. Facebook, Twitter, Hi5, YouTube, blogs and a myriad of other social sites beg the question "what's happening in YOUR life now?" People are broadcasting their most intimate information online, much of which should be private and would have been just a few years ago. The spiritual discipline of secrecy involves keeping some of our actions personal and private. This action is intended to help develop reliability. And this works against spiritual pride. In the Bible, Jesus highlights three things in the Sermon on the Mount that require secrecy: giving, prayer, and fasting (Matthew 5-7). The main thing is not to let others know about our good deeds so that they will have a good opinion of us. In other words, you must not appear to be a “show-off”. Not everything has to be shared to be “liked” on Facebook (Tang,