Knowing when and how to use them can help an individual cope with everyday communication experiences. Often the two “parents”, relevance and effectiveness, as I like to call them, tend to serve as limits to the other four dimensions. All of this is closely tied to a basic moral compass defined by ethics that differ from person to person. Using all ICC criteria when communicating is indeed a guarantee. The choice people have comes down to making an effort to communicate. A seemingly simple choice, but one that can make a difference in a life