The fact that we are unable to fully define a feminist identity and use “etc. ”, a sign of exhaustion, we can assume that there is some wiggle room around gender categories, which is a good thing overall. While there is no way to cover all aspects of a feminist identity, there is inevitably some flexibility within the structure. This can have negative consequences for single women. Classifying people indirectly and directly promotes an “ideal” that is impossible to fit into and ironically divides women. This is clearly counterproductive, we want women to be who they are while coming together and recognizing the cultural constraints women face due to their identity.