Children may suffer from fear, grief, anger, depression, shame, sadness, anxiety, embarrassment, guilt, abandonment and many other things. (Borden, 2015). There is no guarantee that if a child divorces they will experience any or all of these things and there is no guarantee that they would not experience these things if a divorce did not also occur. A divorce would certainly not help the child in this area and it would be in the best interests of the parents for there not to be a divorce if the children were