Maybe they didn't listen to you when you punished them or they didn't learn their lesson when you took everything from them, but they are sure never do it again once they feel embarrassed. This is the use of shame. Shame is a social emotion used to influence a person to change their bad behaviors or habits into good and accepted ones. This action is used on children by parents, parents themselves, as well as to help promote a healthy lifestyle and well-being. This manifests itself in various forms, even in the justice system. There are many opinions against shame, but many of these opinions focus on the effects of over-shaming and not on the shame itself. When applied correctly with the perfect dose of force, shame can be very effective in a changing society. Teenagers go through stages during their adolescent life. They are curious, provocative and insolent. A parent's primary concern is to ensure that their child is protected from dangerous and embarrassing situations, especially those that may involve self-harm and continue into the future. A parent has few approved tactics for taking action once they have already taken away their child's privileges, punished them, and explained what they did wrong, but that child continues to act out. Being a teenager myself, we need to understand that a teenager's mindset is almost always focused on not being embarrassed. Since most teenagers are aware of their reputation, they are less likely to rebel again once they realize their reputation is in danger. This feeling of distress is so unbearable and so difficult to forget that it overwhelms any desire for something even remotely similar to what we have always been ashamed of. When Renée and Gentry Nickell tried everything to... middle of paper......to shame" a form of bullying because it can degrade a person but, if you see a person in poor health , that would mean it's more on them to tell them than to allow them to continue to put their health at risk. What society calls "fat shaming" is nothing more than guiding a person's health into. the right direction by creating a desire in that person to want better Confusing bullying and shame is not uncommon these days The goals of harassment and shame are very different from each other Shame is and should be used. in a way that helps change a person's negative behavior and prevents them from moving from phase to life. Bully's only goal is to make someone feel unwanted out of jealousy or no reason at all. reason. The bully is usually not as close to the victim and leaves emotional scars rather than a life lesson. Shame has educational purposes