Separated from my mother for a long time, I will start questioning her about where she went and instead of telling me the truth, she outright lies to me or manipulates me by threatening me by not signing important school papers, not giving me dinner, not talking to me for an entire week, and not taking me to a school/social event. One evening my mother actually came home, she greeted me as I was frantically working on some math homework and I very kindly asked her to move some plates into the kitchen, but unexpectedly she called him a wimp. In the heat of the moment, I respond by saying bitch; Normally I'm a calm person who would never say that, but I just couldn't control myself. After the exchange, my mother called my father to tell him “to control your child!” ", even though she hadn't been here for two years and was responsible for me under divorced parent laws. My dissatisfaction with her was further divided with her boyfriend getting into trouble by arranging a counseling session “to help resolve the situation”; he didn't know what it was