The reason I say that is because they don't know they are being insulted or don't understand that they are forgetting something. I think it's normal that they don't understand that they're not getting something, I mean, I've seen old people insulting each other and laughing right now. I love that no elder I speak to feels their age. I know one lady told me she was born in 1912 and felt like she was 50 years old. She could walk, dance, sing (not well) but she had fun. I still remember one of the songs she told me, Old Gray Hair. They are happy and that's what I think