I have no right to tie him. Love could not be a currency. If so, do I still love him? I think I would be selfish if I told my brother to obey me because I care about him. I thought obedience to me was a form of return or respect. But now I know that I care about my brother because I want him to have a better childhood. I will not preach to my brother; instead, I will communicate with him and listen to his