Self-image is the way someone looks at themselves. Covey doesn't want teens to view themselves negatively. He believes that if you look at yourself negatively, you cannot succeed in life. Habit 1 strongly supports the idea of ​​self-image by saying being proactive. To achieve this, adolescents must take charge of their own lives, make their own decisions and stop being reactive. If teens can realize that it's their life and not someone else's, they will begin to look at themselves differently. Covey also believed that setting and achieving one's goals was a way to succeed in life, because without goals one would have no purpose in life. Habits 2 and 3 will help teens define and achieve their goals in life. Habit 2 states that you should begin with the end in mind. Sometimes it's okay to go with the flow and live spontaneously; but to get somewhere you have to think about the end result and then start your journey to get there. The third habit is to put first things first. What's the point of setting a goal if you don't make it one of your top priorities? Teenagers need to prioritize their priorities and then do the things that are not very important in their free time. There is no habit specifically created for building positive relationships, but there is a section of the book dedicated to it. Covey calls this section “the relationship bank account.” This section gives some great tips that will help you build positive relationships with your friends and family. One of his tips was to listen rather than just hear. Covey believes that most people can hear, but few people actually listen and respond. Another piece of advice given was to keep your promises. If you keep your promises, the person will start to trust you and feel that they can be counted on.